“If guys understand that a woman is looking for a man with goals and will stop chasing them but rather chase their goals, then one day, these ladies will follow them. A woman cannot follow a man who has nowhere going in life. A woman cannot follow a man who has no roof over their head, a woman cannot follow a man who has no job, a woman cannot follow a man who is struggling to stand on his feet.
The little resources that you had to invest into your dreams or future you decided to waste it as feeding fee to a girlfriend. The money for the business, you used it to impress a girlfriend, when asked, you claim you were investing in a wife to be.
When it was time to marry her, she claimed you were not her class, not her type, and you don’t have A,B,C. She is telling you the bitter truth. You are not the right person for her, you don’t have any goal of your own. You are stagnant at one place and she can’t follow you. Don’t be mad, cursing her. Don’t go crazy calling her names.
Young man, she is right. It is you who has been foolish all this while. Stop threatening the suitors who come her way. You are just a boyfriend, a boy who decided to waste your resources on her. Admit you don’t have what it takes to keep her, let her go in peace and not in pieces.
Chasing girls could be seen as easy and fun because you are adventurous and full of energy , a simple hello could start a relationship now but I can assure you, it will end up in a complicated goodbye if you don’t have what it takes to keep her.”
