A Life coach has advised ladies to stop accepting an engagement ring from a man who is also not ready to wear one himself.
According to Solomon Buchi, any man who proposes to a lady needs to prove that he is also taken by wearing a ring just like he expects his woman to.
He wrote on his social media page;
Don’t accept the proposal of any man who refuses to wear an engagement ring too. Why should you wear a ring to show you’re taken but won’t wear to show he’s taken? Is it only women that should be taken? I don’t get it?
Don’t accept the proposal of any man who refuses to wear an engagement ring too. Why should you wear a ring to show you’re taken but he won’t wear to show he’s taken? Is it only women that should be taken? I don’t get it?!
— Solomon Buchi (@Solomon_Buchi) September 5, 2019
This brought mixed reactions from his followers, see a few below.
****Even the married men with ring still run around like dogs – @JasminesDiary
****Maybe we shld boycott the engagement ring and just wait for the wedding rings for both ☺ – @Chriskehny
****This one is louder ,louder,loudest!!! – @ZichiD
****I’m so glad A male folk has finally decided to discuss this very pressing issue. – @IN_TIMMY_DATION
Sometime ago, Solomon had also stated that men are the reason for the high rate of divorce in Africa.
Men are the cause of high divorce rate! . If men were to put the kind of effort women put into making their marriage work, divorce rates will be low and many women will be happy. A woman can’t be building marriage with a man who’s scattering it.